For everyone, only by saying goodbye to the past can they travel lightly and open a new chapter. At the end of the year, I hope you don’t keep these “things” for the next year.
A past full of regrets
I’ve read a question: What regrets do you have in the past year?
The messages of netizens are varied: some people say that they regret that they were not able to attend Fa Xiao’s wedding; Some people say that they broke up with their boyfriends; Some people say that they made an appointment with a friend to go skiing, but it still hasn’t been done.
In the past year, everyone has their own regrets.
But the days are in the future, not before. The good and the bad must be experienced; Bitter and sweet, they are all destined to happen.
Don’t always miss regrets, get out of frustration and sadness, in order to meet the scenery of willows and flowers. No matter how you live life, there will be regrets, and the key is how you comprehend it. Give this regretful part a more noble yearning, and then respect it and tolerate it, but it will turn the regretful part into the bloom of vitality.
Live in the moment, live up to your love, cherish your time, and be with you. In this way, we can live a sincere and happy life in a new day.

Laborious relationships
There is such a classic line: A person who is liked by most people either has a good personality or lives a tired life.
Trying to please a relationship and draining your inner energy may not be able to be cherished by others.
Interactions between people often focus on the flow of the same energy. When you choose to surrender yourself and build your self-identity on others, the relationship is doomed to become unbalanced because of unequal status.
Instead of spending time trying to please others, you should use the same amount of energy to live your life well.
You don’t have to say things against your will in order to cater to others; You don’t have to do something aggrieved in order to fit into a certain circle.
We are only responsible for our joys and sorrows. If you throw away the things you want to throw away, and the relationship you want to break off is broken, don’t bother to please them, don’t give in easily.
Standing still
The meaning of life lies in continuous breakthroughs.
Some people, because of their greed for comfort, are stuck in their comfort zone and gradually cannot keep up with the pace of change of the times; But there are also some people who maintain an attitude of lifelong learning, and eventually tear apart the cocoon of life, surpass the old self, and renew their nirvana.
On the way of life, the important thing is not the starting point and encounter, but whether to maintain an upward and enterprising heart.
The world will not treat a contented and motivated person harshly, nor will it fail a hard-working and determined person.
I once saw a sentence in the book: No matter what happened in the previous life, it has no impact on how to spend the future life. It is you who decide your life as you live in the here and now.
The past full of regrets, clear zero, devote yourself to the present; Let you wear out the relationship, throw it away, and return the energy to yourself; Standing still, renewed, not trapped in the past.
The old year is coming to an end, the new year is beginning, and only by getting rid of the shackles of the past can we stride forward and meet beautiful and surprising.